Is it in the nature of a human to trust? Every day, even I am at fault, I see people who I feel trust people and those people are untrustworthy. In an ideal society, one would be able to trust everyone. But I feel people only look out for themselves. What’s best for them. Even family. If a person isn’t a good person, family, non-related then they’re just bad. I don’t believe family stands for much than blood related and people you’re more likely to see often. Even family is untrustworthy. What makes people trust people? Is it for the sake of feeling like they have someone to tell things to, that’s there for them? Or because they’re so nieve and think everyone is worthy?
Before sex was harder to get and commiting infidelity was a serious offense. These times sex is too easy and being with someone (husband, wife,girlfriend, boyfriend) is something people overlook. But why has it become like this?
My theory is that because some of these people not in committed relationships are so willing to be given attention to that they put their want to be wanted before their morals. Every sane person should know cheating is immoral. Therefore, while people are with someone else they have other options…or should I say temptations. Which can influence a person to feel as though their missing out on something. Now I don’t believe it’s all the single people’s fault. I just think that when a person is with someone they should be left alone.
In addition, when a partner isn’t giving than the other partner tends to grow tired of not being able to enjoy the things they like with the person they care for. So, then when someone comes around and shows them attention something they’re not typically used to in a positive form they go with it. Thus cheating normally is the result. Don’t be a homewrecker or the selfish partner. However, cheating happens, so have dignity if it happens to occur to you and just move on. You’re worth more than that.